Dan & Alex Spieler on MSN: By ditching outdated traditions like the garter toss, we embraced the freedom of a destination wedding to create a celebration that truly felt like us By ditching outdated traditions like the garter toss, we embraced the freedom of a destination wedding to create a celebration that truly felt like us AOL: 10 Wedding Traditions That Are Disappearing (And Nobody Misses the Garter Toss) 10 Wedding Traditions That Are Disappearing (And Nobody Misses the Garter Toss)